The dating stage is definitely the most exciting part of a relationship. This is when you feel extreme emotions of nervousness, excitement, and happiness. It is the stage where you get to know each other better, find the things or hobbies that you are compatible with, and determine if he or she is the one that you want to be with. However, this stage is different from a women’s perspective compared to men’s. The majority of women believe in love at first sight but for men, love might take a little while but if they do, they truly fall in love.
Here are the stages of how men fall in love that helps you understand how men work it out:
Physical Appearance
As we all know, men tend to get attracted first to a woman’s physical look. This does not mean that a woman needs to be conventionally beautiful to get their attention because every man’s definition of beautiful is different like some prefer those with curly hair, tall, chubby, and many more. Whatever they desire, they look for it first but in some situations, men do not know exactly what they are looking for and they just get attracted to what they see.
Crush
As soon as they are physically attracted to the woman they see beautiful, he now has a crush on her. During this stage, men tend to do whatever it takes to get their crushes’ attention. This stage might determine if he would pursue his crush or not. Men do not fall in love yet in this stage. They just go with the flow and do whatever it is that makes them occupied and happy.
Show off
This is perhaps the most exciting stage for men. They might not feel any love yet but this stage is where men do unique, romantic, and sometimes, extravagant things just to make a woman like him. Men feel good if they have impressed their crush and make her happy with their effort.
Assurance
This stage is important for men before they allow themselves to fall in love. He needs to be sure that the woman is completely in love with him at this stage. Once he gets that assurance, he will now start to think about the pros and cons if he will enter a relationship with her. This might be selfish but men have this characteristic that they do not want to be rejected after they have confessed they love so they want to be sure first.
Now he is ready
Once he is sure that she totally loves him and was able to determine that the pros weigh heavier than the cons of getting into a relationship. Now he is ready to give all the love that she deserves.
These stages are way different from how women fall in love and a lot of people might find them more complicated but what can we do? This is how it works for them and it would be even better if you make men work hard to earn your love too.